tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3980531981336832789.post1219971605358051867..comments2023-05-11T03:42:43.251-07:00Comments on The Happiest Sad: Finding Roo's FamilyJill Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00077847438322979630noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3980531981336832789.post-15498468558150475782010-04-07T15:20:48.736-07:002010-04-07T15:20:48.736-07:00I really appreciated this post :-) My husband and ...I really appreciated this post :-) My husband and I have been waiting for a baby for 3 years (1 year with adoption) and just last month we were selected by a birth mom. So many of my friends have asked if I worry about bonding, or physical differences the baby will notice between me and the birth mom, but I had such an overwhelming sense that this isn't just SOME baby, it's MY baby. And it is so nice to hear that the birth moms feel the same way! What helps the most is, I can't help my paranoia that birth mom will change her mind, but then I know this wasn't my baby, and that's okay too. Heavenly Father will bring my baby to me, eventually. Thank you!!Bellatrix and Narcissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11749663522919766195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3980531981336832789.post-70115661925534866712010-03-03T21:40:22.493-07:002010-03-03T21:40:22.493-07:00This story is exactly why I don't stress and w...This story is exactly why I don't stress and worry over waiting to be chosen by a birth mother. As hard as it was to go for years without being a mommy I knew that one day it would be my time. I just had to wait for God's time and now we are waiting for His time again.BobandColistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11410544909039495631noreply@blogger.com