tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3980531981336832789.post3932833672287137024..comments2023-05-11T03:42:43.251-07:00Comments on The Happiest Sad: April 2009, Part OneJill Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00077847438322979630noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3980531981336832789.post-18772792270222376242010-04-08T15:15:17.120-07:002010-04-08T15:15:17.120-07:00I don't think I ever mention it again, actuall...I don't think I ever mention it again, actually! My sister figured out after a while that even if I was considering adoption, I wasn't considering her, and she dropped it.<br /><br />She, like everyone else, told me my least favorite thing after placement, which is that I did "the right thing." And I'd imagine any sadness at not being picked went away when she found out a few months later that she was pregnant. She had a baby girl a month ago :o)Jill Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00077847438322979630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3980531981336832789.post-51174975846661061682010-04-08T07:28:15.702-07:002010-04-08T07:28:15.702-07:00So... maybe you talk about this later and I'm ...So... maybe you talk about this later and I'm only this far along in your story... but did your sister and her husband handle your adoption well? Were they upset you didn't pick them?? I've only got the infertility side in my experience, not the pregnancy, so I wondered if they were hurt by that decision, and how that might have affected you. Or did they understand?Bellatrix and Narcissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11749663522919766195noreply@blogger.com