tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3980531981336832789.post7782020295864662341..comments2023-05-11T03:42:43.251-07:00Comments on The Happiest Sad: The Kindness of StrangersJill Elizabethhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00077847438322979630noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3980531981336832789.post-48606309191388287222010-06-23T08:40:46.071-07:002010-06-23T08:40:46.071-07:00It's true - it's like they say, if you loo...It's true - it's like they say, if you look for the negative that's what you'll find, and the same for goodness (although sometimes it's dang hard to look for the good and ignore the bad). <br /><br />Sometimes when I have a pity party I'll drag myself out of the house and just try to do one thing for someone else that will make them happy. Even if it's just uploading a picture that they'll like, or surprising them with dinner...that generally gets me out of that mood. Or I'll try to focus "smaller". Instead of looking at the big, scary picture of life, I'll look at one flower. What color is it? Is it blooming? And I'll look it over until I forget about my bad day.AubreyMohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13963616274991709000noreply@blogger.com